Why are you still a Jehovah’s Witness?

Posted by on Jul 12, 2015 in Blog, Featured, General, Shunning Policy | 25 comments

Why are you still a Jehovah’s Witness?

The facts are clear. Being a Jehovah’s Witness is not fun. The Watchtower offers nothing to its members. There is no joy in their Kingdom Halls. Preaching door to door has become passe, not to mention being nerve-wracking drudgery.

There really isn’t anything for young JWs to do and their pool of friends is often quite small. They can not look forward to birthdays or holidays, engaging in school sports, clubs, or other after school activities. Instead of getting a college education, they need to learn to become janitors and window washers. Having “wordly friends” like kids at school or in those living their neighborhood is discouraged – and by some JW parents, strictly forbidden.

Jehovah’s Witnesses are always on the lookout for “bad influences” – constantly on guard against anyone who might be “an apostate” or an expelled JW that must be “shunned.” Witnesses can not have deep theological discussions even between themselves, because they might venture into “apostasy” or generate self-doubt about their beliefs as they actually do honest research.

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Should You Leave the Watchtower?

Posted by on Jan 6, 2014 in Blog, Featured, General | 11 comments

Should You Leave the Watchtower?

Every month I get emails and contact messages from Jehovah’s Witnesses asking me whether or not they should “take the leap” and try to leave the Watchtower organization.  I wish it was easy for me to answer their questions – but it’s not. I know that while I have a very strong opinion, leaving has to be a decision that each person must ultimately make for oneself.

What I do try to get them to understand is that they will be just fine – no matter what their ultimate decision might be. If they are happy being Jehovah’s Witnesses (and many are quite content in that lifestyle), then I would be the last person in the world to suggest that they leave and face the complications that come from making that decision. On the other hand, if they are unhappy and really want out, then I urge them to set aside their fears. I want them to know that even though their lives will change, they will survive through everything they may have to face by making a decision to leave.

Many Jehovah’s Witnesses won’t admit it publicly but would really like to get out. No one knows the actual numbers for sure, but there are far more than the Watchtower would admit. Because the religion promotes and encourages shunning of those who leave, Jehovah’s Witnesses face issues that many people simply can’t deal with. Even many high-profile former Jehovah’s Witnesses have had to face the effects of shunning by family, friends, and even close business associates. When their own parents, siblings, and children are willing (or are forced) to break off all connections – and then say that it is the fault of those leaving – many Jehovah’s Witnesses simply feel they can not choose freedom. It’s a price too high for them to pay.  They would rather stay in the cult and live with the pain than face being shunned by their own family.

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Introducing Watchtower Watch

Posted by on Dec 3, 2012 in Blog, General | 6 comments

Introducing Watchtower Watch

I am honored to have been asked to write the inaugural article for this ambitious new website – Watchtower Watch.

In the months ahead many current and former Jehovah’s Witnesses will be researching, writing, and updating information that we will publish on this site. These articles are intended for anyone wanting to read objective analyses of the Watchtower organization’s beliefs and practices. Our primary goal is to honestly report and comment on current developments within the Society that may impact anyone connected with the faith.

Are you an active Jehovah’s Witness? If you are it is likely you are extremely nervous about reading information on any website that discusses your beliefs. Why? Because the Watch Tower Society repeatedly insists that “obedient and faithful” Witnesses should not read any information found in books or online that has anything to do with their faith – unless the Society has prepared and approved it.

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